WHY IM NO LONGER POSTING ABOUT MY PAST

Single Mom Boss ft. Baked by Laura.

Welcome to the first post in the Single Mom Boss Series. This series will be news to you if you didn’t read my last post “Why I’m No Longer Posting About The Past”. But, this new Single Mom Boss series will feature a new boss mom. Discovering the positives of parenting alone while beating the stereotypes every week.  This week…

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Why I’m No Longer Going to Post About the Past.

I had a question for myself after I published The Boy is Mine – Part 2 that for the first time I couldn’t answer. I asked myself. “Lucia, by reliving these situations and writing about them are you not continuing to live in the past? The fact I couldn’t answer it. And the fact I asked myself this in the…

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The Boy is Mine Part 2

The Boy is Mine Part 2.

Guys, do you remember the girl I mentioned in The Boy is Mine- Part 1? Well, I’ve been that girl too. If you haven’t read part 1 yet, I’d recommend you do before continuing. It’s crazy because while I knew I wanted to talk about being ‘that girl’. The girl that does the whole ‘he’s my man’ thing. It was…

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Feeling Out of Touch

Feeling Out of Touch.

Disclaimer: I wrote this post a few days ago and while I hate to be Negative Nancy. I’d hate to put across a false representation of my life. And, if I’m going to show you all the positives I figured you guys deserve to know it’s not always so easy even if the pictures I post show you otherwise. I don’t know. I…

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im coming to you as a woman

I’m Coming to You as a Woman.

To tell you that you are enough and there’s nothing you could have done to stop him cheating on you. It’s crazy because although women empowerment and girl power are more popular now than ever, there’s still so many of us that have this “I can change a man” mentality or the idea that your lady bits are so ‘tun…

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Why Hasn't She Moved On?

“Why Hasn’t She Moved On Yet?”

Because, honestly, I have no desire to. There’s so many misconceptions about being a single mom and here you can find 14 of the most annoying. But, the most common one is that we’re all desperate to get into a relationship and for someone to save us. I’ve been single for almost three years, and while I think about how amazing…

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I Cut it All Off

A Weight Off My Shoulders – The Big Chop.

“I really went and did the big chop, for the second time” I really did it. I really went and did the big chop for the second time and it feels so damn good. I’m now rocking a TWA and I’m in love with it. It’s amazing because I feel even more liberated now, then I did the first time…

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Black Enough

Black Enough.

A few years ago, I had my first ever experience with overt racism. Now you may or may not have read my post The Boy is Mine. But, I talked about the girl who phones you to shout obscenities at you about the man you apparently share. During this particular round of obscenity shouting, this girl proceeded with saying “You,…

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Sunshine Blogger Award

The Sunshine Blogger Award – Updated.

UPDATE: Following my first Sunshine Blogger nomination, I was nominated again. Not just once, though twice. So, I’ve updated the original post to include the two amazing bloggers that nominated me for the second and third time. I’d like to start this post by acknowledging the lovely Hannah Bassett of Made With Love . The amazing Lia of Inside the Thought of Lia,…

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