The FOMO Phase of Motherhood

The FOMO Phase of Motherhood.

Last week I asked Ayden and Avia if they would like to stay at their aunties; As the girls from university were going out for dinner. However, to my surprise they both said “No, mom we don’t want too” and then it hit me. Not only have I never give them the opportunity to say no, but I also didn’t get that fear of missing out (FOMO) feeling. So,…

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Why I’m No Longer Going to Post About the Past.

I had a question for myself after I published The Boy is Mine – Part 2 that for the first time I couldn’t answer. I asked myself. “Lucia, by reliving these situations and writing about them are you not continuing to live in the past? The fact I couldn’t answer it. And the fact I asked myself this in the…

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Feeling Out of Touch

Feeling Out of Touch.

Disclaimer: I wrote this post a few days ago and while I hate to be Negative Nancy. I’d hate to put across a false representation of my life. And, if I’m going to show you all the positives I figured you guys deserve to know it’s not always so easy even if the pictures I post show you otherwise. I don’t know. I…

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Why Hasn't She Moved On?

“Why Hasn’t She Moved On Yet?”

Because, honestly, I have no desire to. There’s so many misconceptions about being a single mom and here you can find 14 of the most annoying. But, the most common one is that we’re all desperate to get into a relationship and for someone to save us. I’ve been single for almost three years, and while I think about how amazing…

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Single Mom Flying Travel Guide

A Single Moms Guide to Flying with Twins.

In How I Became Two of them One of Me and Ending One Chapter to Start Another. I spoke about flying away with the twins. I discussed why it had taken so long, why I was so reluctant to do so and why now was the right time for us. I’ll be honest in saying that I’m somewhat annoyed at myself…

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Turning 25

Trust in God’s Timing- Turning 25.

It’s been a while since I felt like writing. I’m not sure why but the lack of motivation has been real since me and the twins returned from Portugal. Maybe it’s the holidays blues, but is that even real? If I’m honest with you though, I’ve got piles of clean washing I need to put away, a monthly shop that…

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Moved On

Ending One Chapter to Start Another.

In the first blog post I published “How I Became Two of them One of me”, I touched upon the three biggest decisions I’ve had to make thus far whilst being the twins mom. The most important one for me was making the decision to do this parenting thing alone.    When I wrote the statement previously I’m almost certain…

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Where Have I Been? Life Update.

  It’s been a while since I sat at my laptop with the purpose of writing for TwoofthemOneofme. It’s safe to say that the assessment period at university took over and while I was planning to come back straight after my final exam on the 30th April. I just couldn’t bare too open my laptop never mind writing about where…

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